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Love & Passion
Love & Passion
Stories of romance, desire, and the bonds that connect us across cultures.
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stay with me
Hanne Ørstavik
How do you recognise love when fear is the feeling you know best? A year after the premature death of her husband, a 53-year-old Norwegian writer living in Milan falls in love again. M, a man fifteen years her junior, offers an intensity she has never experienced before. But as their relationship deepens, his troubling anger begins to surface, awakening memories of the fear that dominated her childhood. Her father’s violent temper and her mother’s eventual departure have left wounds she struggles to understand, let alone escape. Meanwhile, she writes a novel about Judith, a woman navigating love, loss, and the possibility of starting over. As the boundaries between the writer’s life and her fictional character’s story begin to blur, both women confront the painful patterns that shape their relationships. With unflinching honesty, Hanne Ørstavik explores the desire for intimacy, the legacy of trauma, and the difficult question of whether love can ever free us from the past.
Norway
2025
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Ti Amo
Hanne Ørstavik
Can love survive when the person you love is disappearing before your eyes? In this intimate, autobiographical novel, a woman in her fifties discovers that her husband has cancer. As they confront his illness together, their shared life takes on a new intensity, and ordinary moments become charged with tenderness, fear, and impending loss. The Italian words ti amo—“I love you”—become a quiet expression of devotion in the face of something neither of them can control. Through spare, precise prose, Hanne Ørstavik explores the strange isolation of caring for someone who is dying, the vulnerability of the body, and the ways love changes when time becomes painfully limited. Neither sentimental nor detached, the novel captures the contradictions of grief before death has even arrived: the desire to hold on, the exhaustion of caregiving, and the desperate wish to make every remaining moment count.
Norway
2022
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